Agreed that you loved him to death and always felt that you wouldn’t be able see anybody other than him in that place. Agreed that he meant everything to you, it was around him that your world revolved, but no more, now it’s all over. As harsh as it may sound that something which you can’t deny and you can’t continue to live in the present carrying the burden of the past.
“Love happens only once and I can’t love anyone like I loved him”, soon after the heart break this is what we all hear. Agreed that you can never love somebody like you loved him but it is extremely foolish to think that “love can never happen again”. Love is always waiting happen anytime, anywhere all you have to do is allow it to happen. All you have to do is “just let go” and at the right time it will be hard for you not to LOVE AGAIN. Just like you loved somebody there is somebody out there who loves you with all his heart, unfortunately you don’t want to notice it because you are busy lamenting about the past. Why does the world have to face the consequences of your failed relationship? Not only are you depriving yourself of all the love that is on offer but you are also depriving someone of his share of love too for no fault of his. First love is always something truly special and something which is minus the “compromise” but then what we want to happen doesn’t always happen and there is nothing much you can do about other than accepting it. The moment you decide that you’ll stop loving then you’ll be the world’s first robot which can breathe. Nobody in this world can ever stop loving, it’s like “I want to live but I don’t want to breathe”. When you know that it isn’t possible then why try so hard.
Why should you miss out on the love that this world has to offer just because of something which has happened in the past. I am not asking you to forget the past but don’t hold on to it. For good or bad those days were some of the best days of your life and they helped you to grow as a person. Just because something went wrong once doesn’t mean it will always go wrong and deciding your future based on one incident is a mistake, a BIG MISTAKE. There is a world out there which loves you to bits, all you have to do is accept the love and return the favor.
Life is about moving forward and taking the step ahead.
It’s always tough to get over a break up especially if you don’t have the right kind of support it does take time, but it is you who has to decide as to what amount of time is long and what amount of time is too long.
You have felt how it is to love, it’s time that you feel how it is to be loved, and it’s time that you moved on girl.
